Sunday, March 29, 2015

Questions on happiness

Jay posted a handful of thought-provoking questions on happiness. Instead of attempting to answer them all on her blog post, in her comments section, I thought that these questions merit a blog post of my own. After all, it is still March, which is question-and-answer month!
  1. What made you happy when you were younger?
    Going to school to spend time with friend and to learn made me happy. I liked recess and skipping rope in elementary school. I liked doing arts and crafts, and learning calligraphy as I grew up. I also liked playing music and sports.

  2. What makes you happy now?
    Listening to music still makes me happy. Being with friends and family makes me happy, too. I am also fortunate to be loved by my best friend, who happens to be a wonderful boyfriend.

  3. What do you think will make you happy in the future?
    Companionship with my guy will make me happy. Having strong friendships and family relationships will. And, yes, music will always be important to me.

  4. Do any of these answers change if you get married? If you have children?
    I was married, so I became much happier when I dissolved the relationship. I don't think that my answers would change if I were to remarry. As for children, I have a feeling that my answers would.
Thanks for the questions, Jay!

Saturday, March 28, 2015

So aroused about being spanked hard that my wish came true

On Tuesday, my guy and I went out for lunch. I love when he is at the office. Having lunch with him breaks up our day nicely.

We had a conversation about my guy's next business trip, which is to Montreal. His week there coincides with my extended Easter weekend. I asked if I could join him. He didn't hesitate and wanted me with him.

My guy is flying there two Sundays from now. I will be doing a road trip to Montreal on Good Friday. I will be staying in a hotel for a couple of days before shacking up with him.

At the restaurant, I told my guy about my plans to eat my way through the city. I'd be so big that I would have a difficult time driving back. My guy insisted that my drive home would be uncomfortable after he is done punishing my backside for being such a bad girl. I was instantly turned on.

He proceeded to tell me that I will be punished soon, but he wouldn't say when. Again, I ended up being aroused for most of the afternoon.

After work, I went to see him in the project room. He was talking to a rather long-winded woman through our instant messaging application that we have at work. We held hands and I ran my fingers through his soft hair as he talked.

Once he was done with his call, he told me that I needed a sore red bottom. I was horny. He asked if I was wet. I was. He insisted that we have treehouse time. I was game.

We drove to our usual spot and parked. We then got into the backseat of my car.
"I have two options for you," he said.
"Oh, no. I don't know if I like what I am about to hear," I replied.
"Hear me out. We can either stay at a decent hotel in Montreal, smack in the middle of downtown, or we can stay at another hotel that doesn't have a decent gym."
"So, you're saying that we can either stay at a fancy hotel where we can use your elite status to get free booze and food, or we can stay at a fancy hotel wannabe?" I summarized.
"Yes," he said, smiling at me.
"Well, it sounds like we have to do the former. We can't have you being upset, cranky, and whiny," I stated.
"Are you calling me cranky?" he asked.
"If the shoe fits... ," I replied.
"You're not helping your situation. Where is that thick wooden ruler?"
I reached over to the front storage area of my car and got the wooden ruler. I pretended to not want to give it to him. We playfully struggled and he managed to get a hold of it. He slapped my thigh with the ruler and told me that I was bad.
"I want you to bend over, with your butt facing me and your head facing the window," he said.
"You're so demanding. I don't want to!" I protested.
He smacked my right buttock with the ruler and told me to bend over. I assumed the position.

He spanked me hard. He punctuated every smack by either telling me that I am such a bad girl that I need constant discipline. I loved it.

At one point, he slid the ruler between my legs, rubbing it against my crotch. It was nice. He then stopped that and slapped my bottom some more.

The slaps got harder each time. I could feel my buttocks warming up. He finally stopped and pleasured me until I came, which took no time.

I snuggled up next to him afterward and thanked him. He liked that.

Of course, he was getting hard. I rubbed my hand against his hard member in his pants. It kept getting harder as I continued to caress his penis.

My guy had no choice but to let me play with his hard cock. He loved how my red nail polish looked when I held his erect penis. I gave him a handjob with my right hand. My left hand was cupping his balls. We managed to kiss through it all.

He was so excited. He came all over my hands. It was wonderful.

We cleaned up and then hugged some more. Once our dopiness had faded, we drove home.

By the time I got home, I could feel how sore my bottom was. My guy did a good job. I was impressed, rubbing my bottom occasionally to relieve some of the soreness as I walked up the stairs to my front door.

Friday, March 27, 2015

Saturday date night and treehouse time

A couple of Saturdays ago, my guy was returning home from Turkey. He advised that his flight would arrive at 18:20, which would mean that he'd be at the office by 19:30. I was good with meeting him there.

I spent my day leisurely shopping across the greater Toronto area. I went to the movies. I then was hungry and went for a late lunch at a pho place. I found out from the owner that the area had lost power for five hours and had just restored moments before I had arrived. I kind of figured that out when a number of traffic lights were out in the area. Unfortunately, I couldn't pay for my meal using my debit card. The owner was okay about my paying the next time I was there. He knows that I am a regular.

I then went shopping at Winners. I have found a top coat that works on my nail polish. Seche Vite, which literally translates to dry fast, does just that. More importantly, my nail polish doesn't come off as quickly as some of the other top coats that I have used.

Anyway, after I had left the store and got in my car, I noticed that my guy had texted me. His flight had touched down forty minutes early. He was scheduled to be at the office at 19:00. I texted him back and said that I'd be there. Luckily, I was only a thirty-minute drive away.

So, I timed everything perfectly. I casually drove to the office and waited for him. I saw a taxi with my guy in it approaching his parked car. The cab driver unloaded his stuff. My guy packed everything in his car and drove over to me.
"Hey," he said, after he had rolled down his car's window.
"Hey, good-looking guy," I said.
"I'm hungry," he stated factually.
"When are you not hungry?" I replied, which made him smile.
"Did you want to grab dinner?" he asked me
"Sure. Our usual Chinese restaurant?" I asked him.
"Sounds good."
"Do you remember where that is or do I need to text you the address again?" I said, teasing him.
"I should be okay."
So, we drove over to the restaurant. I grabbed on to his arm as we walked into the place.

It was wonderful seeing him. He got me Turkish delight that I always enjoy. We caught up with various things as we ate dinner. It was wonderful seeing him.

My guy wanted some quality time after dinner -- desserts of sorts. I did, too. So, we had treehouse time across the street.

He pleasured me nicely, telling me that I was a bid girl who would get a spanking soon. I loved it.

I got to play with his hard member in his pants for a bit before I gave my guy a handjob. He was so turned on when we kissed, as I continued to jerk him off. It was nice to touch and kiss him.

In our lethargic state, we chatted some more and cuddled for a while until we were okay to drive home. It's always nice when he returns home.

Thursday, March 26, 2015

Who will spank Julie Andrews?

My favourite talk show is Live! with Kelly and Michael. I have been through a couple of host changes. I started watching the show when I was in high school, and loved watching Regis Philbin and Kathie Lee Gifford. They have both left the show.

Today, Julie Andrews was on the show. She is a great sport when it comes to spanking and who she would like to be spanked by.

I love her!

Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Missed lunch, but a dinner date is a pretty good substitute

My guy and I were planning on having lunch together on Monday. Unfortunately, he had an online meeting to attend at noon. Instead, he said that we could go out for dinner after work.

When he was done with his workday, he sent me an instant message, asking if I was done with work. I was. I went down to see him in one of the project rooms.

We talked. I caressed his hair and loved how soft it felt between my fingers. I was leaning forward and he liked the cardigan that I was wearing. Of course, he liked it. He bought it for me!
"You have a black bra on," he remarked after he used his hand to move my cardigan down.
"You're so bad," I said, smiling at him.
"No, bad would be this," he noted, unbuttoning my cardigan to reveal my black bra.
"You normally put me back together. How come you're not buttoning my cardigan up?"
"I am admiring the view," he said, continuing to look at me.
We left work and drove to our regular Chinese restaurant. We ordered dinner. He went with the Thai red curry with chicken. I had the spicy Thai chilli chicken that my guy had recommended.

His dish was probably lacking the heat that he normally likes. He let me try some. I liked the coconut milk in his dish. I loved my dinner. I had left some onions, so my guy ate them with his rice. He liked it better.

We had a good chat. We held hands. He liked my red nail polish. I caressed his knee and upper thigh from under the table. He enjoyed it.

Date night after work is nice. It's a great start to the workweek.

Tuesday, March 24, 2015

Skype with my guy on Friday night

It was my guy's last night in Turkey a couple of Fridays ago. He was there on a business trip.

We had a good Skype chat that evening. We had missed each other a couple of times, due to my falling asleep waiting for him to call and I didn't hear the notification. My guy was also experiencing some Internet issues at his hotel. So, this Friday was going well.

My guy, for years, has been shaving his hair. I like bald men. I find them sexy. My guy is no exception.

This year, we have had a pretty cold winter. Even though it's now Spring, our temperatures are well below the average. Just last night, we got snow here!

My guy wanted to have a warmer head by growing his hair out. He looks good with hair. He doesn't have much grey and his hair is naturally curly. I also like running my fingers through it.

He often asks me what I think of his hair. He has a bit of thinning hair, so he is self-conscious. I like his hair. I told him that he looks much younger with a head of hair, which is true. It made him feel good.

He got some added support from a manager in Turkey. They had dinner earlier on Friday evening. She pegged my guy as being at least eight years younger than he is.

My guy found her to be managerial even after hours. She couldn't carry a decent conversation with him. She asked him what his hotel room looked like. Um, that was a tad awkward.

Anyway, my guy and I talked some more, to the point where he was getting aroused. I asked him whether he wanted to get off. He did.

Our phone sex this time around was one of the best we have had. He likes when I talk dirty to him. Believe me, it has taken a lot of practice on my part. He has always been patient with me. He came hard and fast. It made my evening.

I told him to sleep well and that I couldn't wait to see him the following day. He felt the same way about seeing me.

Practice does make perfect... and more!

Monday, March 23, 2015

Blogging from A to Z Challenge

I saw that Han has signed up for the Blogging from A to Z Challenge. I decided that I would try it out, too.

Blogging from A to Z Challenge

Last year, I signed up for a similar one in June. It was a ton of fun.

This challenge is similar. The idea is to write your first blog post in April about a topic that begins with the first letter of the alphabet, the second blog post about a topic that starts with the letter b, and so on, all the way to z.

This challenge gets more difficult if you choose a theme. I won't be doing that. I have a feeling that if I did select a theme that I'd lose interest. I'd rather have some flexibility.

So, this challenge begins in April. Here's to my writing up a storm! I hope that you'll come and support my writing madness.

Sunday, March 22, 2015

March questions: Travel, favourite time of the year, books vs. e-readers, and kinks

Questions in March continue. They are a ton of fun to answer! This batch of questions comes from Ronnie:
Do you prefer to drive or fly when travelling? 
I like both methods! I love to do road trips. The longest road trip that I have taken was driving from Toronto eastbound, through almost all the Atlantic provinces, except for Newfoundland and Labrador. I then took a ferry from Yarmouth, Nova Scotia to Portland, Maine. I then drove through the United States, making my way back home. It was fabulous! 
I am a frequent flyer. I have no problems being on a plane, except for folks next to me who either hog the armrest or who elbow me. The latter annoys me more because I am ticklish. These days, I tend to visit European countries. I have only been to four countries so far and have plenty left to explore. This year, I hope to visit Shanghai.  
What's your favourite time of year? 
What a great question! I like early summer, because the snow is finally behind me! I love late summer and early fall. I like how warm it gets before change comes. There's a crispness in the air that I find comforting. It's just nice. 
Do you prefer to read actual books or use an e-reader? 
I sort of hinted about my preference when I had answered Han's question the other day. I prefer a physical newspaper or book. I suppose that I am old-fashioned that way because I like the feel of the pages between my fingers.  
I don't mind reading a book with an e-reader. It's convenient when you're on a plane or public transportation. I would sooner support my local library or bookstore by getting books, though. 
Do you have other kinks other than spanking? 
This question is similar to the one that Han had posed. Great minds think alike! I like light bondage. My guy and I are still exploring it. So far, it has been pleasurable and fun for both of us.
If you'd like to ask me a question or more, please feel free to leave them in the Comments section. Thanks!

Saturday, March 21, 2015

March question: When did you used to give spankings?

This question is a rather loaded one from Autumn, but it's a good one. I will begin with her questions and her thoughts:
OK, I don't know you very well, so this question may have been answered, but when DID you used to give spankings? I sometimes wonder if I would enjoy it--I certainly love getting them, and I absolutely love-tapping and squeezing my husband's butt, but I'm not sure I would enjoy giving a full out spanking. Tell me your experiences! 
The easiest answer would be to read through the beginning of my blog. I talk about how I am a switch and how I became interested in spanking. At the time, I was married to a man who enjoyed being spanked, so it was easy for me to enjoy giving spankings as much as I enjoyed receiving them.

I think that giving a spanking depends on several factors. For me, I gave birthday spankings growing up, and both experienced and witnessed spankings. It stopped until I started dating my then-boyfriend, who is now my ex-husband, so I had some experience. However, spanking him was my first adult experience.

You obviously need your husband's support. Has he hinted that he would like to trying receiving a spanking?

It doesn't hurt (no pun intended!) to experiment. You can continue giving him love taps or playfully administer a light spanking and see how he feels. It will also allow you to figure out whether you enjoy this role or if you'd sooner be on the receiving end.

For me, I have always been turned on by either my doing the spanking or my getting my backside warmed up. So, go ahead and try it out. You will never know whether you'll truly like it until you start with small steps and work your way up. If it doesn't go well, you know that you'll always have a rosy red bottom to look forward to.

I hope that my answer helps! I wish you all the best.

If you have any questions for me, please let me know in the Comments section. Thanks!

Friday, March 20, 2015

Kingsman flick and The Man from U.N.C.L.E. trailer

Last Saturday, I went to the movies at long last. I saw Kingsman: The Secret Service. It is a fabulous movie if you like James Bond flicks with quite the twist.

Not to give too much away, but there is a nice glimpse of a bare bottom in the flick. It's a spankable one, too.

Anyway, before the movie started, I sat through the trailers. I enjoy them. It makes me look forward to other movies that I potentially want to see.

The Man from U.N.C.L.E. trailer caught my attention when I heard these words:
"Don't make me put you over my knee."
I doubt that the reference was spanking-related, but it did arouse me.

Thursday, March 19, 2015

March questions: Music, trains, and personality types

I received these wonderful questions from SheandHim:
What is your favourite genre of music? 
Such a tough question! I love music. I used to go to many concerts in a year. Perhaps I averaged a concert a month. These days, I am more selective. 
I like 80's synthesizer or electronic music the most. I have a weakness for Depeche Mode, Pet Shop Boys, Erasure, Howard Jones, Thompson Twins, and many more. I am tuned in to the 80's channel on Sirius XM radio. 
I do listen to all types of music. I have an extensive collection of songs. My iPod classic has over 22,000 songs! 
Have you ever ridden a train? 
I have. We have commuter trains in the greater Toronto area called GO trains that take you from various cities and towns. I loved being on it after work. The first stop took nearly twenty minutes to get there, so I had a decent nap. 
I have also taken the train from Metuchen, NJ to Penn Station in New York City when I was in Piscataway on a business trip. It was quite the experience that I wouldn't trade for the world! 
Are you easygoing or are you a worrier? 
I have been told that I am both easygoing and a bit of a worrier. I have a relaxed personality, which helps when things are stressful. I do worry about things, but it isn't to the point where I can't sleep or relax. I think it's a healthy version of being concerned.
Thanks for your answers! If you have questions that you would like me to answer, please leave them in the Comments section. I'd be happy to answer them.

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

March questions continue

The other day, I received a batch of fun questions from Han. Here are my answers:
Do you read a newspaper daily? 
Sadly, I don't read the paper version of a newspaper daily. Instead, I tend to read the online version as often as I can, which is pretty close to being daily. Otherwise, I get my news either on the radio or at night when I have a chance to watch the evening news on TV. 
Do you watch television a lot and what are your favourite programs? 
Great segue! I don't watch as much television as I should. I find that I watch more TV when I am on vacation, mainly because I am often in another country and like watching local programs. 
I probably watch television an average of fourteen hours a week. I tend to watch the news. I also like Live! with Kelly and Michael and The Ellen DeGeneres Show. I do enjoy watching hockey games and special sporting events, but I haven't been doing that much these days. 
Are you interested in politics? 
This question is a good one. My ex-hubby taught politics. I follow politics, but I am nowhere near being a passionate political junkie like he was. Coincidentally, my guy is interested in politics, but he doesn't ram it down my throat. He can spend a decent amount of time debating his views with others on Facebook and other sites. He has cut down on that these days. 
As for me, I am a mathematical girl. So, when there is an election, I am far more interested in the poll results, statistical trends, and other tidbits that are math-related. 
I don't have a specific party that I will lean towards supporting. Rather, I will look at what each candidate's platform is and decide which one I support. 
If possible, do you vote for a male or a female, or is the gender irrelevant? 
Gender is irrelevant to me when I vote for a candidate. It's more about what the candidate stands for and whether that person is fit to govern. 
I am fortunate to live in Canada and be Canadian. We have had both male and female prime ministers. When I lived in Winnipeg, I had a gay mayor. Living in Ontario these days, I have a lesbian premier. As long as they do a decent job in standing up for what Canadians want and representing them, all is well. 
Do you miss giving spankings as much as you like receiving them? 
I do miss giving spankings. I still like giving my guy lovetaps here and there, but it's not the same. However, I don't miss them so much that I insist on spanking my guy hard. 
I must admit that I love being spanked these days. My guy does it well and he has embraced spanking me. At first, I thought that he would think that I was weird for liking to be spanked. He likes that I get so turned on that he doesn't find it strange at all. I love that and him, of course. 
Did you do other D/s activities we she should know about besides spankings? 
Such a great question! My guy and I have explored light bondage. I like being lightly tied up. I enjoy having my hands secured while he spanks me now and again. If we don't have a silky scarf or some velvety rope, I get aroused when he holds my hand behind my back.
One time when we were on vacation, he gave me an eye mask. I tried it on. He tickled me and kissed me while I had the mask on. It was fun and enjoyable. I wouldn't mind giving the eye mask another try soon.
Thanks for the questions, Han!

If you have any questions that you'd like me to answer, feel free to leave them in the Comments section. Thanks!

Tuesday, March 17, 2015

March question: guests for dinner and drinks

I received this wonderful question from Cat:
What four people (and their spouse/partner), living or dead, would you invite for an evening of drinks and dinner? Would your guy choose the same? If not, what are his choices (if he chooses to answer)?
Here's my answer:
  • Madonna
    She can bring her latest boy toy to our soiree. I have loved her since I was twelve years old. I would ask her a ton of questions at dinner, but would ask about whether she is still interested in spankings. If so, I would ask whether I could give her one or she could put me over her knee.
  • Pet Shop Boys
    I'd invite Neil and Chris. I don't know whether they are dating anyone these days. I have met them in person. They are wonderful together. You always get stimulating conversations when they are together.
  • Jann Arden
    She is my favourite Canadian female singer. I have met her a number of times and love her dearly. She is so down-to-earth and has a wicked sense of humour. I think that we'd need our own talk show!
  • My guy
    I don't think I need a reason for him to be at this dinner. Sure, he gets hungry often. However, he is a great conversationalist and is wonderful company to have. And, I don't care if I'm biased here!
I'll have to ask my guy the same question and let you know what his answer is.

If you have any questions for me to answer, please feel free to leave them in the Comments section. Thanks!

Monday, March 16, 2015

Friday spanking and sucking session

My guy and I drove over to our usual spot and parked our cars next to each other. We climbed into the backseat of my car.

Making out with my guy is a treat. I love how full his lips are pressed against mine. I enjoy using my tongue to outline his lips.
"You have been such a bad girl," he reminded me.
"No, only you say that," I replied.
"That's because no one knows how naughty you really are," my guy explained. "You seem like a good girl to everyone else, but I know that it isn't true. So, you need to be punished."
"That's not nice," I said, playing along.
"I want you to face that way, with you butt facing me," he told me, pointing to his left.
It was different because I normally go over his knee. Instead, I was crouched on my knees, with my head touching the corner part of the backseat.

My guy got out my thick wooden ruler. He held is word in giving me a hard spanking. I loved every moment of it as he spanked me across my jeans. The last few smacks were so hard that I could feel my entire body tingle after they landed. It was wonderful.

He teased me by placing the wooden ruler between my legs and then rubbing it against my crotch. So pleasurable!

He held me after my spanking, which I always enjoy. He likes kissing me afterwards. It was then time to pleasure my guy.

I had a breath mint in my mouth, which was rather slow to dissolve. I ended up sucking my guy's erect member with minty fresh breath. It was nice. The saliva production was perfect. My guy was so horny that he came in practically no time.

Of course, we were both dopey from the experience, so more cuddle time ensued. My guy would be travelling to Turkey the following day, so it was a nice parting gift for him and a perfect reminder of how much he loves spanking his naughty girl.

Sunday, March 15, 2015

A laptop and a planned hard spanking on a Friday afternoon

Last Friday, my guy drove to the office in the afternoon to fetch his laptop from our IT department. He then had some steps to do to restore his data.

My department has these software development sessions every other Friday. It's to share knowledge and strengthen our competence to do our jobs better.

My guy and I are no longer in the same department. However, the information that he needs to do his job still comes from my department. So, I forwarded him the invitation to these development sessions. He attended his first one that day.

We both agreed after the session that developers are not good at presenting a decent picture of why someone would need to use a software feature. Rather, they are more concerned about describing what they have done from a technical perspective, which left some product managers in the same session rather confused.

My guy left the room early. I could tell that he was not impressed with the session. He left his instructions on how to restore his data next to me. I texted him and asked where he was. He decided that he wanted to start restoring his data first, but obviously couldn't do it without the details that he had left next to me. He told me to come see him on the third floor. So, I did.

He was glad to see me and the instructions. I caressed his back while we were talking. I could tell that he liked that a lot.

Anyway, we both worked away for the next 1.5 hours. I texted him and asked how the data restoration was going. He said it was still progressing and asked whether I wanted to join him. I was done with work, so I packed up and went down to the third floor to see how he was.

We had a nice chat. My guy had simply picked up his laptop and only had ten minutes left before his laptop's battery would die. Naturally, I had my laptop charger with me, so we used it to keep his data restoration going.

At one point, I rested my head on his shoulder as we waited for the restoration to finish. He rested his head on top of mine. It sparked my guy to get turned on.
"The v-neck pink sweater that you are wearing is making me want to take a look under it to see your breasts," he admitted.
"Too bad your laptop is taking a while," I replied, placing one hand on his thigh while caressing his back with the other hand.
My guy was rubbing the back of my right thigh, which was so pleasurable. He couldn't resist but to reach over and squeeze my left breast under my sweater. I gently caressed the back of his neck, which he loved.

Just after 18:00, his laptop's data was restored. I love when he is boyish.
"Let's go have treehouse time!" he exclaimed.
"I'd like that," I replied.
"I can still spank you while you're having your period, right?" he asked me, like the gentleman that he is.
"Yes, you can."
"Good, because I want you to have a sore bottom for a couple of days."
Fridays are great when we are both in the office.

Friday, March 13, 2015

March is question-and-answer month

Okay, so I am late with joining the question-and-answer bandwagon. Better late than not doing a thing, as they say!

It's March, so feel free to march over to my comments section and ask me a question about anything. I will try my best to answer them in a future blog post.

Thanks! I'm looking forward to getting at least one question. =)

Thursday, March 12, 2015

Date night after work

Last Thursday, my guy and I decided to have a date night after work. My guy was coming into the office in the afternoon to drop off his laptop, which needs a new software image. He would rather have someone do it than for him to spend hours slaving away over annoying software.

I tend to have a team meeting each Thursday afternoon. The bothersome part is that there are a handful of folks on my team who talk so much that it elongates the meeting's length. I originally had it at one hour. I have had to adjust it to 1.5 hours. Now, it is at 2 hours. Often, we go over that time. I even mentioned to everyone that I hope that this trend does not continue.

Anyway, I said in the meeting that I had to leave at 17:00. It worked like a charm. I should do that more often. Five minutes after I had left the meeting room, the rest of my team filed out.

I let my guy know that I was leaving the office. He texted me and said that he was on his way.

We met in the parking lot of the restaurant. He opened my car door to let me out. I was a distraction for him, as he forgot to get something out of his car's trunk. He had a present for me.

We ordered our food and talked. He held my hands and looked at my nail polish. He liked my pink polish. He observed that the purple that I had earlier was more intriguing, probably because it's my favourite colour and it's not exactly the hottest colour to have on your nails.

Anyway, he helped me unwrap my present, which was well-packed with newspaper and tape. It was a lovely stone plaque of an olive tree, which was my gift from Tunisia. The newspaper was neat, for the advertisements were in Arabic and French. I could understand the latter. I would do just fine as a tourist there.

I had sweet and sour fish for dinner. My guy had the garlic chicken. We shared our food and dessert, which was fried bananas with vanilla ice cream. It was nice to catch up and to be reminded of how attractive he is to me.

He told me that we could meet again tomorrow when he picks up his laptop. I loved that idea and embraced him in front of our cars.

He opened my car door. I got in. He wished me goodnight, kissed me, and closed my door. He is such a gentleman. He's sweet.

Sunday, March 08, 2015

Taking time to appreciate little things

A couple of weeks ago, my guy and I were cuddling. The sun was setting, so it was getting dark.

We both like to cuddle. Sometimes, we'll chat about our day while we're in each other's arms. Other times, we'll have little to say, but just like being held and touched.

This occasion, my guy was touching my ear as I leaned against his chest and hugged him. He noticed that my earring was different. It was longer and had a larger stone in it. I told him that it was lavender jade in a teardrop shape. He liked it a lot.

He continued his journey up my ear. He played with my helix ring. He likes my ears, but tells me now and again that I should either pull my hair back or tuck my hair behind me ear to display them more often.

Yesterday, we were sitting next to each other in a project room at the office. It was just the two of us. He told me that I am sweet, sexy, funny, intelligent, and spankable.

I like when he gets mushy.

Thursday, March 05, 2015

Timing, flights, that time of the month, and a spanking to come

They say that timing is everything. This week seems to reinforce this old adage.

My guy and I had planned to have dinner on Tuesday night. I was at the office and his flight would have touched down at 17:00.

Naturally, the greater Toronto area had snow, freezing rain, and ice pellets scheduled during the rush hour that day. My fine menstrual cycle application on my phone said that my period would be expected to occur the same day.

Well, I received a text message from my guy while I was away from all my electronic devices at 13:00, indicating that he was stuck in Frankfurt. Instead, he would be arriving on Wednesday afternoon.

An hour later, I saw his message and caught him online. We texted for a bit.

It turns out that my guy had missed his connecting flight by five minutes. Instead, he had to check in to a hotel for the evening, without his luggage. The next available flight was the following afternoon. I was glad that he didn't have to spend his time at the airport.

I don't go into the office on Wednesdays anymore. I asked whether we should reschedule dinner for that evening. He told me that he'd be in the office on Thursday and Friday. That news was positive.

My period started on Wednesday. So, quality time for me will be limited for a bit. Ah, timing!

On Tuesday afternoon, I did manage to speak to my guy on Skype. He was horny and sweet.

My guy likes tires. He wondered why I didn't have winter tires on my vehicle and insisted that he get me a set. Love does funny things to people, but it was a pretty thoughtful gesture on his part.

My guy also told me that he wanted to spank me for not uploading a bunch of intimate photos to our private, shared folder. We had taken these photos a few months ago. I like that he will come up with any reason to spank me. The best one is simply that I am a bad girl.

We managed to get him off. It always makes me feel good when he does. He was happy. He needed it. He did have a not-so-great travel day, after all.

I wished him a good evening and a safe trip home. On a good note, he flew in on a calm, snow-free evening. I also get to see him at work for two days this week, which I didn't expect.

Things eventually do work out. It's all about the timing.

Sunday, March 01, 2015

Blog post on Chross's Web site and spanking scenes

My recent post, Quality time and a spanking after work, made it on Chross's Spankings of the Week. I am thrilled!

My guy is currently in Tunisia on business. He comes back on Tuesday night. I can't wait to see him!

Naturally, when he is away, we try and talk as much as we can on Skype. He tends to let me know when he has arrived and we chat for a bit. He has a tougher time dealing with jetlag as I do. I am not sure why that is. He travels so often that I would think that it would be easier for him than for me to adjust to the local time.

Yesterday, we had a good chat.
"What are your plans for this weekend?" he asked me.
"I may go and see a movie," I said. "I would like to see Kingsman: The Secret Service. I have also heard that Fifty Shades of Grey has a few spanking scenes. I hope that I don't masturbate in the theatre."
My guy picturing my masturbating got him all excited. Of course, I would much rather have him pleasure me. I also don't want to get arrested in the movie theatre!