Saturday, March 21, 2015

March question: When did you used to give spankings?

This question is a rather loaded one from Autumn, but it's a good one. I will begin with her questions and her thoughts:
OK, I don't know you very well, so this question may have been answered, but when DID you used to give spankings? I sometimes wonder if I would enjoy it--I certainly love getting them, and I absolutely love-tapping and squeezing my husband's butt, but I'm not sure I would enjoy giving a full out spanking. Tell me your experiences! 
The easiest answer would be to read through the beginning of my blog. I talk about how I am a switch and how I became interested in spanking. At the time, I was married to a man who enjoyed being spanked, so it was easy for me to enjoy giving spankings as much as I enjoyed receiving them.

I think that giving a spanking depends on several factors. For me, I gave birthday spankings growing up, and both experienced and witnessed spankings. It stopped until I started dating my then-boyfriend, who is now my ex-husband, so I had some experience. However, spanking him was my first adult experience.

You obviously need your husband's support. Has he hinted that he would like to trying receiving a spanking?

It doesn't hurt (no pun intended!) to experiment. You can continue giving him love taps or playfully administer a light spanking and see how he feels. It will also allow you to figure out whether you enjoy this role or if you'd sooner be on the receiving end.

For me, I have always been turned on by either my doing the spanking or my getting my backside warmed up. So, go ahead and try it out. You will never know whether you'll truly like it until you start with small steps and work your way up. If it doesn't go well, you know that you'll always have a rosy red bottom to look forward to.

I hope that my answer helps! I wish you all the best.

If you have any questions for me, please let me know in the Comments section. Thanks!


  1. I have absolutely no desire to spank anyone but really like the way you break it down CB. Love how well thought out your answers are. Thanks for sharing.

    Hugs and Blessings...

    1. Thanks for your kind words, Cat! I try my best to answer these questions. This one took quite some thought. Giving a spanking depends on so many variables. My experience isn't going to suit everyone, because we're all so different.

  2. Thanks for answering my question, and I apologize for taking so long to respond! It was a bit of a loaded question, and I look forward to reading the beginning of your blog now. My husband definitely does *not* want to be spanked, so I'd need to find another volunteer, and you're right that it wouldn't "hurt (me)" to try! might hurt my hand...

    1. That's okay for the delay. Life happens, as I just read your latest post.

      Your husband is like my guy. He would rather dish it out than being the spankee. And, yes, your hand would hurt a bit. There are always implements. =)