I got up at my usual time, 06:40, on Friday morning. Six minutes later, I received a Skype message from my guy (MG).
MG: Are you up yet?It was a first for us. We got him off by text only. It is easier to talk dirty, but I think that my groggy morning voice would have had the opposite effect! He loved this new experience to get him off.
Me: Hey, I just woke up!
MG: Hey, babe. I know you're an earlybird. Not sure if you're up for a chat.
Me: I'd sound very sleepy!
MG: I'm hard and wish you were here.
We both agreed when we chatted the next day that we should give it a try again, but to get me off instead.
It was a nice way to end his workday and kick off his weekend. For me, I was happy that he was happy and it was a great start to my workday.
Ah, talking dirty is indeed easier by typing it. Take an old guys advice and do it next time when you can look him in the eyes. You trust him there is nothing to lose (just stop if you don't like it both) only to win. it is very satisfactory to see his eyes burning and you are the one that made the fire.
ReplyDeleteDon't be ashamed of your words. They are words of love.
Have fun,
Han
Talking dirty over the phone or through Skype comes easily to my guy. I am okay at it, but I find that I am much more descriptive typing how I feel. I guess that it's the writer in me.
DeleteThanks for your encouragement. It means a lot!
So fun! I've gotten my guy off by texting only before--when I was in a house with *thin* walls, and he was also in a different time zone!
ReplyDeleteNice! It is a lot of fun texting to get off. I'm glad that I am not the only one who thinks that it's a ton of fun.
DeleteI have been reading all the way back your blog. I stopped at 2011. Read on the last pages this week. It seemed I had a complete different smart girl with a naughty name in my mind than I found here... My comments will change a bit because I always assumed you were a very young couple at 20, 21 or so. ��
ReplyDeleteI have a double take to do and that doesn't happen often to me. I think you are wonderful for keeping the old blogs on your site so people like me can adjust their image of you.
Will react to the complete blog later,
Han
Wow, I am flattered that you found my blog riveting that you read practically every post by now. It's nice that you first thought that I was a youthful girl in my early 20's. I think that my guy and I are playful, and don't really dwell on age, not that we're ancient or anything! It's a nice compliment from you.
DeleteMy past is my past. I don't think that I could truly talking about spanking without bring in my ex-hubby into the picture. After all, he was the first guy that I spanked and was spanked by as an adult.
My chapters in my life book are richer and fulfilling to me. I think that it shows in many of my blog posts since I have been with my guy, although we have our share of down moments, too.