Insight on why my guy likes spanking me

My guy and I have been chatting on Skype almost daily these days. It's nice. We chat about everything. We feel closer to each other, although we are continents apart for the new few weeks.

I told my guy that I absolutely loved the last few spankings that he has given me. They have all been hard and across my bare bottom. I told him that the last spanking was the hardest one that he has ever given me.

"I like spanking you hard," he admitted.
"I have always enjoyed being spanked when you use your bare hand. It's more intimate and personal."
"Sometimes, it hurts my hand when I spank you," he stated. "So, I know that you must be pretty sore afterwards."
"We can change it up with a paddle, if you'd like. We can't have you with a sore hand."
"Nah, I don't feel any pain. I like the sound that my hand makes against your bare butt. I also can see and feel how wet you are. I also get to play with you as I spank you. The view is nice, you know."

It's great how he has grown to love spanking me. I couldn't have asked for anything more.