tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20055918.post1484616363990231793..comments2023-12-18T01:57:32.959-05:00Comments on Incessantly spanked: Passing of the ex-hubby -- reflections of being spanked as an adult by himcutiebootiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13325096955544062237noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20055918.post-57739280661808835792015-04-28T00:51:48.126-04:002015-04-28T00:51:48.126-04:00Thanks for your insight, Han. It is strange that h...Thanks for your insight, Han. It is strange that he is gone. I had many firsts with him that will be forever linked to him.<br /><br />As cliche as it sounds, time does indeed heal. Had he passed away shortly after I left him, I would have been more emotional and probably less forgiving. And, it's not healthy to hold grudges for long periods.<br /><br />It does feel final that this chapter is officially over. I have been writing several other ones since.cutiebootiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13325096955544062237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20055918.post-11421172063265054282015-04-27T16:56:39.213-04:002015-04-27T16:56:39.213-04:00It is so strange that the man you once loved, is g...It is so strange that the man you once loved, is gone. You have said goodbye to him a long time ago, and that was a good thing you did, girl with the naughty name. But there will be always a lot of "the first" on his name forever for you. <br /><br />So, it is wonderful of you to let him have his peace. True forgiveness is a wonderful thing if you can bring yourself to it. It will give you rest as well.<br /><br />Hug,<br />HanHan Jansz. van Meegerenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16232852677191131702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20055918.post-65418158765921320992015-04-27T16:49:43.137-04:002015-04-27T16:49:43.137-04:00Thanks, Renee Rose! I suppose that his passing is ...Thanks, Renee Rose! I suppose that his passing is the last part of my healing process and does provide closure. Thanks for pointing that out. =)cutiebootiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13325096955544062237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20055918.post-67375491676922250872015-04-27T16:32:51.795-04:002015-04-27T16:32:51.795-04:00Thanks, Cat. He taught me a lot. I am taking it fa...Thanks, Cat. He taught me a lot. I am taking it fairly well. Lots of good memories have been flooding in, which is good.cutiebootiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13325096955544062237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20055918.post-15411359878573312015-04-27T16:30:36.526-04:002015-04-27T16:30:36.526-04:00RIP to your ex-hubby. Glad you have closure. ((hu...RIP to your ex-hubby. Glad you have closure. ((hugs))Renee Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01414212384941364401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20055918.post-35526561507845717532015-04-27T01:17:15.522-04:002015-04-27T01:17:15.522-04:00Hey CB...he was once someone special to you and he...Hey CB...he was once someone special to you and helped you become the woman you are now so of course there will be some sadness. Sending prayers, healing energy and positive thoughts. May he rest in peace.<br /><br />Hugs and blessings...<br />CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.com